http://gratingspace.com/2009/06/09/we-all-cant-die-in-bed-part-iii/ Wed, 04 May 2011 03:41:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://gratingspace.com/2009/06/09/we-all-cant-die-in-bed-part-iii/#comment-532 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 21:03:28 +0000 http://gratingspace.com/?p=277#comment-532 craigslist is not only the place of the sordid but of differences so prolific they undermine identification itself: the str8! typical encounter: a straight male posts an ad to meet (an)other straight male(s) in the presence of whom to jerk off, but under no circumstances to touch. straight identification and the prohibition on “gay” contact are the criteria. i think it’s interesting that this illustrates the divide between sexual practice and identification, since they are (maybe) in radical contradiction in the case of str8s, if not so much to ask whether str8s are straight or gay. at best they embody both and neither, and therefore suggest a third (and fourth, and fifth…) way for which none of the (homo/bi/a/hetero)sexualities can account.

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